What are the top 3 things that can put a loving relationship in ruins? Infidelity, sex and money are the culprits that can have undesirable affects on how we love. They can literally destroy loving relationships including families. Yet, we can reverse this negative energy through trust and open-honest-positive communication. The key here is for couples to let go of fear and ego...bringing to the table the foundation of their union... love for each other!

Promote healing and understanding

The journey for saving the relationship may be difficult because we have to allow ourselves to be vulnerable and expose our pain, humiliation, anger and sadness. This is a perfect time for allowing the foundation of love to become stronger. This is not the time to hold fast onto the negative stuff. Break the cycle to enhance growth and promote healing and understanding.

Allow some time for communication, 45 minutes to an hour without distractions. This may require more time and many sessions. Partners shall take a turn sharing what has brought them to a place of unhappiness. The individual listening must wait to speak until the other is complete. Keep the conversations calm without yelling, ranting and raving. Be gentle by using kind words though being sincere.

Better loving companion

These meetings are not intended to lay fault, pointing fingers and criticizing the other person but to convey what is not helping you to become an even greater loving companion. Understand your own frustrations and pain. You may discover interesting information through self-realization that was misdirected towards your partner.

The bottom line is that it will take both individuals to communicate effectively and with sincerity to feel safe in freeing the soul.