Do you wish to have him fall in love with you? Would you like to know how to ignite that glimmer of interest and turn it into full blown love? Have you been seeking the mysterious secrets some girls just seem to know? Know that you are not alone in you quest for the secrets to a man's heart. Read on and discover what you've always wanted to know.

The game of love is rarely easy. Either he's running at the first hint of commitment, or he's sticking around for the great sex, only to disappear whenever you want to introduce him to your friends and family. The fact that men want to roam while women generally want to nest has been known for ages. Yet some women do manage to get that great guy and get him to fall so deeply in love with her that he'll, literally, do anything for her.

What did they do? They kept a hold on their own lives.

Men will often say that they like women who are independent. Rarely will a man be attracted to a woman who does not have a life of her own. Those who do, tend to be quite controlling. So if you maintain your social life, activities, hobbies and career, a man is more likely to respect and admire you. What he won't feel is weighed down by the need to entertain and keep you busy because you're relying so heavily on him.

Women who are successful in love are also keeping the same pace as the man. That is to say, they are not rushing him into anything he's not yet ready for. A man enjoys the chase and the hunt and the challenge of winning a woman's heart. So, sit back and let him work to woe you.

And one of the most important thing women need to remember is to appreciate the man. If you love him, if you want to be with him, it must be because he has qualities that appeal to you, right? Well, let him know you appreciate those qualities. Tell him you admire what he stands for and that you're grateful for his strength and understanding.

Some women can be quick to attack the very man they love and want. Either due to frustration at his lack of commitment or other factors, they can attack, criticize and nag the man before he even has a chance to defend himself. Know that a man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel good about himself, not someone who'll denigrate and diminish.

To make him fall in love, be the woman he wants and needs, while holding back and leaving the time and space he needs to realize you are, indeed, the woman for him.